Archive for February, 2010


I had an interesting conversation with a long time friend of mine (from high school) she was reflecting on her life, and made some interesting observations. She is also into the “Secret” in a big way.

Anyway one point I want to share, and she said “I understand what causes unhappiness” she goes on by saying “unhappiness is caused by disappointment, and it is when people have high expectations that are not met, so they become disappointed. They also usually blame other people for not helping them reach their expectations. They don’t take responsibility for what was created or not created. A wise person knows that at the end of the day, they create their own reality. The negative person who only sees failure, loss and disappointment, have set themselves up for it. That is all they will see. A wise person who has no expectations of anyone or leaves the outcome to the divine, will accept what the outcome is, and leaves no blame upon another”

I thought this was very wise words for my friend, and is one that she needed to come to, as her life has been of struggles and disappointments. So the bottom line is. Before you blame another for your unhappy life or situation, take responsibility for creating your reality!

I thought to write this, and when I look at my daily draw, it sums up this passage nicely.


A new outlook (horseman)

positive and lucky discovery by a friend (clover, book, dog)



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What event will be the pinnacle for me this year?

Well I’ve just realised that I can’t upload any images (yet) as my folder with my lenormand images I transferred to my laptop, then deleted from this computor to give it more space….

Question: What event will be the pinnacle for me this year?


Mice beside me indicates that this year will have it’s issues, and certainly a busy one (it has been like that already) perhaps at times I may be overwhelmed.

Fish I actually like this card, because it is pioneering. I will persue the things I need, and may become a little more entrepreneurial. I have been thinking more about doing some form of business too.


This shows ongoing problems causing stress. Funny that the Mice are showing here, because I have a phobia with rats and mice. And I have had such an issue with mice and rats, around my property, they are chewing holes in walls. It is quite stressful for me, as I hesitate when walking in my house, fear of seeing one scuttling across the floor.

I see this as some exchange or work being done on my home.

Also this man is someone who is decisive in his actions, and he may make a sudden and important decision to do with his home situation.

I also see another possibility, and especially because I have been thinking alot about business. This also indicates a business venture that will involve a male who is very decisive. The business may be in a small retail outlet or a home business.

Things will start to progress  after April and should fully manifest by October.

This year I go into a 1 year, so new beginnings, and enterprises from my birthday 22 March of this year. The pinnacle of that number vibration will reach it’s peak between 22 September – 22 December.

Update: Well I and a male friend finally set up a business Lenormand New Zealand So this was definitely a constructive event for me this year.

The land lord also put in a new vanity in my bathroom, as well as agreeing to eradicate the pest problem I have (this is still to be actioned)

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